These signs, if you notice in your loved ones, should prompt you to quickly seek professional help
Depression (major depressive disorder or clinical depression) is defined as a common but serious mood disorder. It causes severe symptoms that affect how you feel, think, and handle daily activities, such as sleeping, eating, or working. To be diagnosed with depression, the symptoms must be present for at least two weeks.
Major Depressive Disorder: diagnostic criteria
A. Five (or more) of the following symptoms have been present during the same two-week period, and represent a change from previous functioning: at least one of the symptoms is either (1) depressed mood or (2) loss of interest or pleasure.
Note: Do not include symptoms that are clearly attributable to another medical condition.
B. The symptoms cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning.
C. The episode is not attributable to the physiological effects of a substance or to another medical condition.
Criteria A-C represents a major depressive episode.
Responses to a significant loss: (e.g., bereavement, financial ruin, losses from a natural disaster, a serious medical illness or disability, may include feelings of intense sadness, rumination about loss, insomnia, poor appetite, and weight loss noted in Criterion A, which may resemble a depressive episode. Although such symptoms may be understandable considered appropriate to the loss, the presence of a major depressive episode, in addition to the normal response to a significant loss should also be carefully considered. This decision inevitably requires the exercise of clinical judgement based on the individual’s history and the cultural norms for the expression of distress in the context of loss.
D. The occurrence of the major depressive episode is not better explained by schizoaffective disorder, schizophrenia, schizophreniform disorder, delusional disorder, or other specified and unspecified schizophrenia spectrum and other psychotic disorders.
E. There has never been a manic episode or a hypomanic episode.
This exclusion does not apply if all of the manic-like or hypomanic-like episodes are substance-induced or are attributable to the physiological effects of another medical condition.
Through my work experience as a counsellor, I had this one case where my clients who were a young couple—Shalini and Rahul*—were treated for depression. Shalini was angry with Rahul because he had been, in her opinion, distant and unloving towards her in recent weeks. No matter how hard she tried to please him, nothing seemed to work. She began wondering whether he had lost interest in her. After I asked Rahul certain key questions, it became clear that he had gradually become depressed. Hence, had lost interest in pretty much everything that had previously given him pleasure, including Shalini. Once Rahul’s depression was adequately treated, he became the warm, loving and attentive man with whom Shalini had fallen in love with and gotten married. But, how does someone know when a loved one is slipping into depression?
In this case, Shalini had seen a drastic change in Rahul’s thought process, behaviour and mood. He lost interest in things which he liked doing before and was in constant state of being low regardless of what Shalini did to lift his moods.