#As You Sow So Shall You Reap
Agony , anguish , hatred , jealousy..
There are many more emotions like these which we have harboured over decades for all those People whom we dislike or have disliked in past.
Somehow those emotions bring minute atoms of negativity to us which participate in a fusion reaction and convert us into an all together desolated and melancholic person which we don't realise even.
What I feel is that there is one common element behind possessing all these negative emotions.
" Definitely I am having something less than others " or
" Alas I am not having what he / she has "
A sense of incompletion is prevailing in everyone. I will quote some examples. May be you can relate to some of them.
Whether that's in a son working in an MNC and aspiring to become the Team Manager and get promoted but at the end of the day who is not able to spare time for his father who got retired from government job last year and has sustained a heart attack last month and had to undergo Angioplasty for that.
May be that's a 40+ home maker who is involved in her kids , husband , domestic aids to such depths that she has forgotten when was the last time she took out time for herself and sat on the couch with a cup of tea in all poise.
It can be either a 25+ medical student who is a graduate and living miles away from family wanting to make it big in life and fighting with thousands of aspirants but he has missed the times of happiness and sorrows even which his family had to go through in his absence.
Bottom line -
1. If I don't have that thing which he has , he must have worked hard with lots of dedication and passion to achieve that and " I am yet to Start towards that goal "
The day you start feeling this the journey will become easy and affable.
2. Family is one bond which is all about unconditional love and affection. Do whatever you are doing but don't sacrifice this bond at any cost of success or else no scaled heights will make you happy and complete or contended.
May the happiness and love prevail ....
Dr. Tushar Mehta