This Kerala female bouncer’s story is an inspiration for women to dream differently

A striking video of a woman dressed in black, clearing the path for Malayalam superstar Mohanal at an event, recently took social media by storm. 

Anu Kunjumon did not plan the viral moment, but the video spoke volumes about her poise and professional demeanour and commanded respect. As one of Kerala’s rare female bouncers, it also catapulted her into the spotlight. 

"I had an interview with a reporter from PTI who was working on a story about female bouncers. I told them my story and gave them some of my videos. One of them became viral,” she says, also clarifying that she is not actor Mohanlal’s bodyguard as reported by a section of the media.

The photo was taken at an ad film shoot where Kunjumon was both a coordinator and a bouncer, juggling two tasks.

In her case, this is not an exception, but a norm. 

A professional photographer for the past 13 years, Kunjumon also works as a part-time bouncer at pubs and events—often shooting during the day and ensuring safety at night. 

Born in Kanjiramattom in Ernakulam district, Kunjumon was raised by a single mother, and she understood the difficulties and struggles of making a mark in life. Therefore, she challenged herself at every opportunity. She ventured into photography when it was not a preferred career for women in Kerala. She covered weddings and film promotions, and worked on ad shoots. 

Her unexpected pivot to becoming a bouncer happened quite by accident. 

“When I went for a promotional event as a photographer, I got into a confrontation with a bouncer. But soon I became friends with a group of bouncers and was intrigued by their work. Since I was already into fitness, I decided to venture into a territory few women in the state had explored before,” she says.

This was three years ago, and, since then, Kunjumon has been a bouncer at various pubs in Kochi, and has also worked at private events. 

What makes a successful female bouncer? For Kunjumon, physical fitness is just the beginning.

“It is good to be physically fit and learn the martial arts. But it’s equally important to be mentally alert and strong, and be able to face tough situations,” she explains. 

Her mental strength has been tested multiple times. Recalling an incident at a pub that led to a confrontation, Kunjumon shares, “I tried to handle the situation calmly, but it didn’t work out. This led to an altercation, but I think I handled it professionally and this prevented any formal complaints.”

She asserts that one has to have the mental power to handle any situation and emphasises the psychological aspects of security. She says the psychological demands of security go unnoticed behind one’s physical presence.

Kunjumon explains the struggles she faces as a single parent. “I was raised by a single parent but I saw my mother struggle. I had to be bold to face different situations. I have two children and I struggle financially. But I also know that I can handle any situation. It’s also because I have no other choice,” she says.

At the heart of Kunjumon’s remarkable journey are her two children—a daughter who’s studying in twelfth standard and a son who is in class seven. 

"My children are happy to see me work and support me in everything. This keeps me going,” she shares with pride. 

Kunjumon’s newfound fame and visibility as a bouncer have sparked interest among other women. “I am happy to receive calls from women who say my story has inspired them to think about taking work as a bouncer,” she says.

While her path may be unconventional, with people questioning her choice to work in a male-dominated industry, her attitude towards life reflects both practicality and passion.

"I am a person who struggles in life. I need a job if I want to move forward in life. It's a job that I do with passion and love. I believe we don't feel bad when we do the job we love. It also gives me an income.”

Kunjumon points out that bouncers in India don’t enjoy the same respect or status as they do in other countries. “Here, they are often equated with goondas,” she says.

Her ambitions are multifold. While she will continue to work as a photographer and a bouncer, she is also looking forward to more acting roles in films. She has done a short character role in the Malayalam movie Vishesham, and another film Pooram Pooradam Poorutadhi, where she plays a cameo, is awaiting release.

Whatever hat she dons, it’s evident Kunjumon defines success on her own terms. Along with passion and perseverance, she also exemplifies purpose and authenticity to inspire other women to dream big.