No one is telling you the dark side of becoming an entrepreneur

Sunday June 14, 2015 , 5 min Read

Last month, I wrote an article - how I achieved Nirwana as an entrepreneur. But I feel I missed a few points in the process passing on an incomplete message.

I know enough people who have dreamt of starting a company, but they never took the first step. You need courage, and the mindset of an entrepreneur, to test the waters in the ocean of startups.

Entrepreneurship is not for you if one of the following is true for you.

Career growth means a greater-than-10% salary hike and a more impressive job title
Life settlement means owning a house, having a beautiful wife (or rich husband) and two smart kids
Startups are a hot topic during lunch and weekend parties only, but no one does anything to make them a reality.
You know how to make quick bucks by fooling people, and you think the same tactic can be applied to a startup
The value (financial) of one month of your life is not more than one month of your salary, in your opinion

Do you remember the last time you took a risk -- something like taking leave for two weeks for vacation without your boss’ approval? Entrepreneurship is about confronting brutal realities of life where you have to take the risk on a daily basis.

You seek an expert’s help to move forward in an unfamiliar work situation, and are afraid of challenges.
You don’t try new things because statistics say that the probability of failure is 90%.
You dream of becoming Steve Jobs but compromise on your ideologies (often because your boss want things another way)
Last one -- you know everything and you don’t like learning from juniors or peers. You only learn from CEOs because that is your primary goal of doing a startup.

Entrepreneurship is for brave hearts

You have to be mentally strong
You won’t raise money overnight
Your co-founders may leave you mid-way
Your potential investors may ditch you after promising funding.
Going near cashless becomes routine (be prepared for inconsistent income)

You know it’s not an easy journey. You have to bear a lot of pain. It is scary to leave your job and follow your passion. We hear success stories of startups, but no one tells us how many failures are buried under that success.

“Remember, with every failure you are adding layers to your mental strength.” - Richard Branson

Side effects of Entrepreneurship

Frustration

Frustration hits you like the monthly mobile bill. Every month, we plan something great, but plans fail quite often. We can't avoid the frustration of failure, but we can learn how to handle it.

Insecurity

You doubt your decisions many times. You won't find anyone to help you out. This is a side effect of becoming your own boss. You can't ask for directions all the time, even if you have mentors.

Self-worth issues

You doubt yourself. After continuous failures, you start feeling like you aren’t worthy of anything. Persistence and perseverance are keys to tackling such a situation.

Addiction of work

This happens with almost every entrepreneur. Addiction to anything has an adverse effect on life. It’s even possible for someone to become addicted to smoking or alcohol after starting up, as they use it to alleviate stress.

Sleep disorders

Bad sleep habits take the front seat when you have to deliver a product in time. There is so much chaos, from customers and employees to family, that you often mess up your sleep schedule. My own bad sleep patterns began to affect my productivity, so I started waking up at the same time every day irrespective of my sleep time. My routine adjusted automatically to my sleep timings.

Family relationships suffer

Have you experienced this when you don't give time to your girlfriend, wife or kids? Even when you sit with them, you talk about recent funding news, or your difficulties in hiring, or how tough your customer is. Give it a break! Spend some quality time with your family.

Bad food habits

A very likely situation for bachelor entrepreneurs. You won't have time to cook food. You will subsist on ready-to-eat junk food alone. You had better get on a fruit diet instead.

No social life

You won't feel it because you are busy building your product or chasing your next customer, but your friends know how many parties you are missing.

I am not trying to scare you, but it is scary because I have experienced this in my startup life. If you still want to take a leap then go through the checklist below before taking the final decision.

Checklist before leaving your job

Why quit? Is it because I hate my boss or work, I want to pursue my passion, or I want to become my own boss?
Can I work on my dream venture while doing a full-time job? How much time will it take to launch an MVP (Minimum Viable Product)?
What are my Plans A and B? What if both fail? Do I have plans C and D?
How much do I spend monthly? Calculate your present expenses and future expenses.
How much do I need to support the family in the future? Consider your obligations like marriage, your kid’s education, and the foreign vacation you promised your family.
How long can I survive without a salary? If you think your venture will start paying you back in one year then save money for yourself for at least two years, because your plans will fail quite often.

Last question to ask yourself. If I quit my job and follow my passion only to have it fail miserably after two or three years of dedicated work, how will I feel? If you feel terrified, then reconsider your decision. We discussed this question in my previous startup. If I failed, I was willing to bear the pain of failure.

What is your take? I will be happy to discuss in the comments below.

Read my views on How society discourages an Indian from starting up